Today’s Wedding Wednesday? A sneak peak into the evolution of my relationship – and how we are preparing for the future!
Do you know this is one of the first pictures ever taken of me and Joe? (There might be one earlier at Met’s game…shhh). This was Memorial Day weekend two years ago – it was the night he met all my ski friends, and the night he asked me to be his girlfriend! Little did I know what the next two years would bring, and that I had found the man I would someday marry!
Joe is is the partner I’ve always dreamed of finding – he’s my best friend, he’s smart and funny, handsome – and there is a certain X factor of why we just work in a way no relationship has before. One of the things Joe has had to get used to (aka, learn to love) with me is that I’m a planner. From tonight’s dinner, to weekends, to the vacation we might take 6 months from now, I want to plan it all right now. Joe on the other hand? Much more spontaneous. We balance each other out, in the best possible way.
As you can imagine, there are a lot of things in life I haven’t been able to plan – but as someone who loves to plan everything (as soon as possible), there are a few things in our relationship that I think are absolute necessities and should always be planned for – aside from our wedding. And no – I’m not talking about a pre-nup – or kids….